Just a final update on this silly saga:
Front wheels were balanced, the bent one was able to be balanced fine and the front left was fine. They got the alignment way better than the previous shop. Axles are totally fine they say so that's good!
The vibration is still there a tad but I bounced some ideas of of them, they were on lunch and accidentally gave my keys to another customer so I had to wait around for them to bring them back. They think the exhaust is causing vibration at the low rpms, so I think the tips will need to be connected at some point to eliminate that.
The storm springs I have are really stiff; they pointed out how stiff they were a few times and said I could also be feeling some oscillation due to the struts not being stiff enough to dampen them. I told them about the Mando ECS mod and they said that should eliminate the weird handling in some scenarios.
So, that's it! Thanks everyone for the help glad this BS is somewhat over with.