To update, Stinger is "nearly" done...Friday they said they're getting the stoneguard installed, so it should realistically be complete today and ready for me to pick up today...I hope.
That said, I did stop by BMW on Saturday and took the M240i XDrive for a test drive. I did really like the sports car feel and the smaller size. I did like the car, but did receive a bit of sticker shock when I asked for a quick print off of the lease payments, which I think had some incorrect data, but still. I'm expecting I can pick up the M240i for 150-200 a month more than I'm paying right now for the Stinger once negotiated (which I dumped 17K equity into when purchased). I can afford 150-200 a month more, but I do question the perceived benefit of paying more on monthly payments. I do like sporty cars and understand there is a premium to pay on a "well built" sports car. The other part of me questions how often I will take advantage of the performance considering the traffic density in my commutes. Also, I've had a very similar monthly payment for the last 8 years, so an increase would reflect inflation...
So basically, I want something nice but don't want to pay for it, so I'll sit here and deliberate this week lol.
I looked over every single "premium" vehicle I could think of that has similar performance (although some had less) and every coupe came up around the same or more money (RC350, Q60 Red Sport, C43 Coupe, then Audi S3, etc). I think about the Golf R which was enjoyable on the drive, but is a compromise due to having 4 doors, no sunroof, engine doesn't sound as nice as an I6, front wheel biased, and really not that pretty IMO. So it's a tough call.