The dealer staff goes to training on these vehicles and should be aware of it. KIA offers different vehicles to the dealer, the dealer decides what to purchase based on what they believe folks in their area would want. Some sales folks only care about selling a car and making money, they just want to make the deal. If you inquired with the dealer and they provided you incorrect information, KIA corporation is not at fault, the folks at the dealership that provided incorrect information would be to blame.
That being said, KIA should be able to offer a software fix for this to make their customers happy. My guess is they may have tested it and feel that the 18" will not achieve the 167 mph limit safely and want to ensure they don't sell you a car not equipped to handle that speed in case some folks do try it, have a blow out and and accident.