Once it was through, sure. I couldn't easily push the obd cable through, even with the grommet loose - it only moved 1/4 inch into the firewall, just enough that with pressure from my hand there was a gap - without that, no gap to push the jb4 cable through.
When I was pushing/pulling on it, there was enough space, but then I couldn't find a way to push the cable through. I didn't want to push "connector first" to force the grommet.. With my hand in the firewall, obviously no way to get the cable through from the dash side, hence help from the daughter.
Second time, sure, it will be much easier, but would probably still need 2 people. Maybe I'm just too afraid of breaking things. Probably comes from breaking too many (*&@#$ VAG plastic clips on my MK1/MK2 GLI/GTI..
Edit: maybe GTs have less wiring going through the firewall, allowing the grommet to move further? If it had moved even half an inch further into the firewall, it would have been MUCH easier. That seems to be the story of this car - everything is just 1/4 to 1/2 an inch away from being DIY friendly. See my complaints about coil pack bolts!