So far, so good as far as repairs - no more noise. I doubt there was a switcheroo - this is a generic shop that somewhat specializes in European cars / Mercedes. Unlikely they had another kia endlink lying around. It was still attached to the oem swaybar.
Edit: (was on the phone before - much easier to type from a keyboard).
I mean, my armchair diagnosis seems to have been 100% correct - the bushings were WORN (the new ones have a diamond-grid texture inside to hold lube, I am guessing. That was 95% worn off on the old ones, and any residual lube was a crumbly paste. Exactly what I suspected. I had Cobb sways on my Subaru for 10+ years and they never needed any maintenance, nor my VW aftermarket sways before that, so I just wasn't expecting it. After reading up on it, whiteline seems to be somewhat unique to this issue, so no surprise - the bushings were noisy. So I got different grease in the hopes it lasts longer than whiteline supplied lube - Energy Suspension Formula 5 prelube. We'll see.
The popping sounds I heard were 95% a match for a broken endlink video I found on youtube - and it seems to also be confirmed - the popping seems gone.
Car handles fine - nothing unusual there. Just much quieter over bumps / uneven pavement now.
I guess I have been "under the car". Nothing else looks bent / out-of-shape on the suspension although I am not an expert. I try to wrench myself as much as possible, but I also have my own limits (have a fulltime job, family that needs me, wife that wants lots of attention

, no lift, just jackstands in a somewhat crowded garage, not every possible tool, I'm not the strongest guy out there, I often have to learn/figure out things on the fly, so it takes a long time to do something once, etc). I do all my own oil changes, brake pads/rotors, etc. Will probably still hire others to do coolant stuff, brake line flushes (maybe), etc. This car has only been to a shop maybe 5-7 times: complimentary dealer oil change, install sways, flush brake fluid to prepare for track 2 or 3x, install an upgraded trans cooler / Amsoil trans oil.
Now to worry about the small drop of oil I saw at the oil filter housing (I didn't change the o-ring last time - I guess I got lazy - will change it next time) and worry more about the rear main seal leak (I wiped it off ~500 miles ago when I did the oil) - it seems to have leaked a bit more. Not sure if that's covered under power-train warranty - I may get them to look at it if/when I take it in for the oil line recall.