Where can you find the stock scrub radius for the stinger?
It won't be listed for any car. Like roll centers, these are parameters crucial in the original suspension design. Once put into production, they are not typically something that most owners need to to know or worry about. That, unfortunately, is why few enthusiasts are aware of them, even though modifying suspension do affect these parameters and, in turn, how the chassis behaves.
To find the scrub radius on a MacPherson strut car is pretty straightforward. You simply follow the centerline of the strut down to where it intercept the ground plane with the car at ride height. This is easy to estimate, but measuring it precisely would be a bit tough. It is more practical to assume most RWD cars have some amount of negative scrub radius, and operate from that assumption.
I have amassed quite a few spacers (3, 5, 8, 10mm) and wheels of various offsets (34, 35, 38, 39, 40mm), so it is easy for me to experiment with different offsets to get a feel of the chassis response, then correlate that with the expected chassis behavior at -ve, 0, and +ve scrub radius.
For example, I have been daily driving mostly on my 18x7.5 ET39 with no spacers. This has 5mm more negative than the stock 34mm. As expected, the car's steering effort is a bit higher, but the front end felt like it tracks better, especially on corner exit when returning to straight. biggest difference is when hitting standing water, which around these parts is a regular occurrence with flash floods. Overall, probably not my favorite for a "fun" setup, but excellent for safe everyday driving on public roads.
OTOH, for AutoX, I typically run 18x8.5ET40 or 18x8.5ET38 with 10mm spacers. This changes effective offset to 28 or 30mm. The biggest difference is the steering effort, which is dramatically lighter than my street setup, even though I run wider and sticker track compound tires. Turn-in is faster and steering feel is enhanced (this one is also affected by other factors). I avoid running these tires in the wet, for obvious reasons, and the track is typically fairly smooth, so the negative effects have less chance of getting me in trouble. Center finding on corner exit is less precise, but with AutoX, you are turning constantly, so that's not a big deal either. For running Track Days at higher speeds and longer straights, I might dial the offset back closer to stock 34mm.
So if we have negative scrub to begin with, it looks like more poke outward just gives you more negative scrub, you're not crossing to zero or positive by going wider if I'm reading that right.
No. More positive. See diagrams above. MacPherson strut cars typically run negative scrub radius.
The real conundrum to me, is if I want to go 245 up front staggered, I'd need to go 275 rear, and that would be on 9.5" & 10" rims respectively, which feels like too much deviation from the factory 8.0 & 8.5, and too much tire at the rear (can that be a bad thing?)
Which is where the idea of identical tires on wider front rims and narrower rear rims came from.
I'm using this chart as reference:
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So assuming the stock configuration of stretch at the front (225 on 8.0) and pinch at the rear (255 on 8.5) is the goal, it would mean a 245 square setup would need 9.5" up front for the stretch, but a more pinched 8.5" at the rear. The logic seems to work, but wider rims at the front feels off

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Too many folks let their pre-conceived notions color their judgement. There is nothing wrong with wider rim up front. Remember from above example of the M3, which has 275/40R18 on 18x9.5 up front.
Problem with the Stinger/
G70 is that the front has trouble clearing
aftermarket wheels wider than 8.5". Not at reasonably affordable prices anyway. If I could find an 9" front that would fit, I would be running that in a heartbeat.
Those are my options as I understand it:
245x9.5 front & 275x10" rear (1.5" poke out vs stock and too much rear tire).
Or 245x9.5 front & 245x8.5" rear (looks completely ass backwards).
If I'm not modifying anything else, which is the best track setup (3.3 AWD)?
245x9.5 front & 245x8.5" rear sounds like a terrible idea, driven solely on giving the rear more compliance on a square setup. While those are legitimate factors to consider, they should not be the only one.
245x9.5 front & 275x10" rear would be okay,
if you can find a 9.5 with proper offset that would fit the front. I think 245 or 255 on 9" rim would be a more realistic target for front. Again, assuming you can find one with proper offset that'll fit. Even that will be a tough find, but not impossible.