I have the Fastco FC04 in +30, and made a number of inquiries looking at the same issue.
Both offsets will work, but going to +40 will move the tire further inside the wheel well (toward the centre of the car). If you want to 'fill out' the wheel arches a little more visually, +30 is what I would recommend. No danger of rubbing on anything, but a better overall appearance IMHO. If the FC04 is something you like, they have them in titanium, black, and bronze, and Fastco has a visualizer on the their site so you can see how they look with your body color. My choice was titanium as I don't like the appearance of a fully blacked out wheel.
And yes, you'll need both the hub centric rings and a full set of tuner lugs to attach them (they come with a wrench adapter).